What to Do Upon Death of a Spouse

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As the surviving spouse, you'll have a list of financial tasks to complete.

Sadly, the death of a spouse is a reality for many individuals. While it’s difficult to think about, Forbes’ recent article, “What To Do After The Death Of A Spouse,” provides a thorough list of topics to address when a spouse dies.

Social Security. The funeral home will usually inform the Social Security Administration of a death. A surviving widow(er) who is at least full retirement age will typically receive 100% of the highest benefit you or your spouse was receiving. If you were both receiving Social Security, you’ll only get one check going forward (the highest one). You should also remove your spouse’s social security number from joint accounts and close any of their spouse’s individual accounts to avoid income tax complications in the future.

Paying Bills. See how the bills are being paid – are they being paid  from joint bank accounts, your spouse’s, or your own account? It is also important to notify current/former employers of your spouse’s death, since it is common to have employer-provided life insurance, stock options and other benefits that may require your attention.

Asset Titling, Beneficiary Elections, and Probate. Your spouse hopefully had a will. Assets owned by your spouse individually that don’t pass through a beneficiary designation, like a retirement account, life insurance policy, or through a transfer-on-death or payable-on-death arrangement, will likely go through probate. Get help from an experienced elder law attorney. Robyn has been an estate attorney since 1999.

Retirement Accounts. If you’re the primary beneficiary of an IRA, 401(k), or other type of retirement account, work with your attorney to discuss your options. Surviving spouses have many choices after inheriting a retirement account.

Filing Taxes For The Year of Death. When a spouse dies, the surviving spouse may need to file taxes for both them and their deceased spouse for that tax year (by April 15th of the following year). Ask your attorney if you need to file a federal or state estate tax return (due nine months after death). Note that some non-retirement assets owned by your spouse will also be eligible for a step-up in basis to the fair market value at the date of death.

We work with people to be sure that their affairs are in order before death, but also when the unexpected occurs. We offer estate administration services and would be glad to schedule an appointment for you.

Reference: Forbes (April 20, 2023) “What To Do After The Death Of A Spouse”

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